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*This workshop is open to women, trans and non-binary people.
For many people, dominance can feel easier to perform than to inhabit.
In kink and play, dominance is often imagined as doing things to another person in order to create an experience for them. Doing can feel safer than simply inhabiting authority.
But dominance is more than technique, performance, or intensity. It is also about being.
It is authentic presence and unapologetically taking space.
It is pacing, attention, restraint, and the ability to hold a space with very little.
It is responsibility, creating trust, and, most importantly, leaning into and leading with your genuine curiosity and desire.
It is about allowing yourself to enjoy the power you are holding.
In this workshop, we slow down and strip dominance back to its basics. Together, we explore how to embody dominance in a more grounded and relational way, beyond pornified clichés and performance pressure.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
- You are new to kink and/or curious about dominance and don’t know where to start.
- You feel overwhelmed by femdom workshops that focus primarily on techniques.
- You have some experience with domination, but don’t find your dominant expression in the “mean dominatrix” trope.
- You want to learn how to lead without force.
- You want to explore what makes dominance feel authentic to you, rather than learning how you are supposed to perform it.
WHO CAN ATTEND?
This workshop is open to women, trans and non-binary people. Cis men cannot attend this edition.
WHAT WE EXPLORE
- Dominant presence (body language, attention, stance, voice)
- Power dynamics without performance
- Attention as a dominant tool
- Consent and pacing
- Somatic cues in D/s
- Working with a submissive safely and intentionally
WHAT IT IS NOT
This is not a technique-focused femdom workshop.
We focus on somatic skills and embodied dominance rather than technical skills or impact play.
WHAT TO EXPECT
10:30 to 13:00: workshop
13:00: Lunch break
14:00 to 17:00: workshop
- A workshop with talk based and experiential exercises.
- Embodied consent practices.
- Partnered exercises (in duo’s and groups).
WHAT TO BRING
- Comfy clothes (think yoga class) and water bottle.
- Your lunch plan: you are welcome to bring your own lunch or eat/order from one of several nearby restaurants and takeaways. Please note there is no fridge available at the venue. Some light snacks will be provided during the workshop.
- Optional: Simple play objects (e.g. blindfold, fabric, soft flogger, or other sensorial item) and/or favourite toys. These are simply tools for exploration and there is no expectation of use.
- Please avoid perfume, essential oils, or scented products. We are keeping the space breathable and scent neutral.
TIMING
10:15: Arrival
10:30: Workshop
13:00: Lunch break
14:00: Workshop
17:00: End
(schedule subject to small changes)
Please make sure to arrive on time.
LOCATION
Brussels - Auderghem, close to metro stop Hankar.
(Exact location shared after ticket purchase)
PRACTICALITIES
- This is a sex-positive space, meaning references to sex and sexuality are welcomed, used, and normalized.
- Consent and choice are fundamental values in this space. All exercises are invitations. You are always free to choose your level of participation.
- This is a sober space.
- The workshop is taught in English and open to participants aged 18+.
- We are trauma-aware, queer-friendly, slut-inclusive, and welcoming of neurodiversity.
- If you’re unsure whether this space is right for you, you’re welcome to reach out with questions.
CANCELLATION POLICY
- If you cancel 7 days or more before the workshop, you will receive a full refund (minus platform fees).
- If you cancel less than 7 days before, I won’t be able to offer a refund, but you are welcome to transfer your ticket to another eligible participant. Please check in with me first.
- If I need to cancel for any reason, you will receive a full refund.
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This is a beginner-friendly workshop. No previous experience is needed.
More about my work at scarsandroses.com.
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